Now it's time to transform the problem into a task that needs to be solved. Once the problem and its causes are clearly and honestly formulated, think about how you want to see its solution, in other words, how/what or how you want to see yourself when you solve the problem.
What kind of state of yourself do you want to get at the exit? Here you will again need frankness and a little courage. Statements like" I want a million dollars,"" I want to get married,"" I want a baby,"" I want to lose weight, "or" I want my boss to disappear from the face of the earth " are not suitable.
But clear and Frank goals, such as, for example, "I am a well-off person"," I am a happy wife/mother"," I am healthy/healthy and look great "or" I have a great relationship with my superiors", will work much safer and faster.
Here it is important to understand, realize, and feel exactly what state of yourself you want to get. What you want to see yourself as; not your mother, not your neighbor, not your friend, but yourself. And you don't need to quote statistical reports here and talk about your chances of "becoming a millionaire or a star" or "moving to another country" and so on.
Just listen to yourself at last, and calmly, as a fact, as a given state the desire of your soul, briefly, affirmatively, honestly, in the first person. Don't forget to write everything down and complete the task statement.Β
Thus, we took the most significant step towards changing the situation for the better, the step of awareness: we honestly accepted the problem and our authorship, our responsibility for it, that is, understood, recognized, calmly stated the fact of the existence of a problem situation and identified in ourselves the Deep causes of its occurrence; and finally, consciously made a choice of the desired result, identified the goal, destination in which we want to be.
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