What love is
Hello everyone, today I will like to share with you what love is all about. I personally think people have misinterpreted love in so many ways. Love is a very essential ingredient in the life of every successful person or people. That is why I have taken time to write this to bring our minds to what love is all about. I hope you will love it and agree with me. Enjoy it.Let Look At What Love Is
Real love does not happen all of a sudden. Each of us develops an "ifeal" image in our of a desirable mate. When we meet someone who corresponds to the characteristics of our ideal, then we are immediately attracted to them. Love can develop, but it takes time. Jealousy is not a sign of true love. Some jealousy is normal between two people who deeply care about each other, but jealousy is really possessiveness, not love. People who suffer from acute jealousy usually have a sense of insecurity. They need love so badly they cannot bear the thought of losing it; strong jealousy may result from a relationship in which there is no love at all. Real love is directed toward the welfare and happiness of the other person. Assuming the other person is in no personal danger, one should be able to work and study without constantly worrying about the other. If you become absorbed in your own misery at being separated from your loved one, then you are in love with love, not another person.Love does not make lovers feel ill at ease. You should feel completely comfortable and relaxed with your loved one. You should know that your lover loves you for what you are, not because you are constantly trying to impress him/her in manner or appearance. Love is not blind to the beloved's faults. In fact, the real thing is present when you know all your loved one's faults and shortcomings, yet you care deeply nonetheless. Love is a private bond between two people. It is not likely you love someone whom you would bare intimate details of yours relationship to others.

