SHOULD A MAN ALLOW HIS WIFE TO WORK IN A NIGHT CLUB?

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![795ed9dc98c247add70ab3d8f420a4e72d0e453a.jpeg](https://serey.io/imageupload_data/b9a2e6767b00323416cbe8062de66561c26d7703) I was coming back home from a meeting that lasted till the evening when we met a serious hold up on one of the major road in my area, we were already deep into the traffic, so there's no going back The cause of the traffic was a very popular night club which from time to time we hear many stories like fighting, over drinking, fun, nice meet ups, girls being raped to and or from the club, and many encouraging and discouraging news I'm not a fan of night club myself but I see nothing wrong in the idea itself. On the bus I was in, someone said his wife works as a bar woman there which sprang up an argument for or against the idea of ones wife working in a night club Though many were against it as said in the bus as we slowly but steadily drifted through the traffic on our way home. Our man said his wife has been working there before he met her she has always been good and the salaries and the tips she brought home has been encouraging But many could not have it that women who have higher tips from night clubs are those who allowed themselves to be molested by other men, and even those that do not wan to be molested do get molested anyway Some said there are bouncers who acts as security against misconduct and they usually act promptly when reported to. The argument quickly died as soon as we got our of the traffic area, and during that moment silence as we were driving faster, I thought to myself, would I allow my wife to work in such an environment where men might be at their worst behavior? Since that night I've asked this question many times to married men and all I get was no no no and not a single yes from them Some of the reactions I get includes 1 Any reasonable man won't allow that 2 There are more decent jobs other than that 3 There are no valid reason for allowing that 4 A lot of maniacs are there in night clubs 5 Dignity is at stake on such kind of jobs 6 Night clubs are filled with people with bad intentions 7 There are lots of men starving for flesh there 8 A man shouldn't allow his wife to work in a place where they would disrespect her 9 Lots of temptations there 10 People will have bad thoughts about your wife 11 Night club is close to trouble. Night club is a place to dance freely without public scrutiny and the usual restrictions we have in the society on the mingling of opposite sex. Its a place where people go to enjoy themselves after a stressful week, no wonder Friday and Saturday nights are the most busiest night in night clubs But I don't know of others, as for me, my wife and I can go to clubbing from time to time, but I won't allow her to work in a night club.

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